Slacker

I'm all too aware of the fact that I've neglected my blog. I personally see this as a good thing, as it means I've been spending my time doing other things.

Since of course we are nearing the end of the year, i've decided that this post will be a reflectiion on the resolutions I had made for 2009.

Finances:
I feel as though I've taken a step in the right direction this year. While I still am not as wealthy as I would like to be (lotto anyone?) I feel as though I have more money between pay periods and have been able to put more towards my student loans. I've also been able to afford my skating, which adds up quickly. I made wise decisions such as giving up cable tv and living by movies instead. I'm not around enough to warrant spending $70 a month to have cable.

Relationship failures, past and present:
The friendship that failed this time last year has failed for good, and I'm okay with it. His return to the playhouse this season proved that it was finished. I've lost contact with a few people from the playhouse, and I'm okay. I've realized that while some people are meant to be a part of your life, others are not. I do not feel responsible for any of these failures, and I think for that very reason, I've accomplished this resolution.

Feeling romantically alone:
I really tried not to think of romantic relationships much this year, but in the end some things have changed. Last year I had created a eharmony profile, but never checked it. I updated it once this year, and all of a sudden I'm receiving emails and IMs left and right. I never paid for a membership, but through free communication weekends and the fact that they never caught my AIM name in my profile, I began talking to a couple of people regularly. It finally was narrowed down to just one, and so far things are good. I'm not sure if there is an official label on the relationship yet, but whatever it is, I enjoy it. He's a hysterically funny guy who has good taste in movies and music. He's tall and handsome. He's sweet and I feel very comfortable around him. He appreciates the little things and makes me smile. I'm sincerely hoping that I'll continue seeing him.

Physical limitations:
Skating has been great for this one. I love being on the ice and I love what it's done for my body. My legs are toning and i've lost nearly 30 pounds. I'm down one "right fit" pant size and two normal sizes. I am glad that i've found a sport I like again. :-)

So, that's the update. I'm hoping that you all have a very Merry Christmas and may your new year bring good changes as well. :-)



-- Jessica